Woman behind your success, the biggest Myth.

There is no predefined reason for why people believe so. However, this is a myth and a common coincidence. It has no basis. Scientifically, by the laws of Karma, any blessing or curse which man may perceive is the result of his own actions. There is nobody else but you yourself behind all the happenings. You may feel that your spouse, (wife) is behind your success because you have been trained to view situations from the worldly perspective. But, now view this same situation with a different lens.

It is not because she came that you have become successful or happy. In fact, the happiness she experiences (temporary) is the result of her individual past actions and the same is valid for you too. You experience happiness because of your individual past actions.

But, due the period of fructification, of both your actions coincide, you experience its results at the same time, together. Thus, it is your individual actions that brings you happiness and the same implies for her as well. You get to experience nothing from the result of your spouse or any other individual. Nobody is responsible for the happiness or sorrow caused to the other. It is the individual himself who is solely responsible.

Remember, even if  she was not there in your life you will surely get what you have to get, it can be either happiness or sorrow. Because Karma is not bound to the person but the action.