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Woman behind your success, the biggest Myth.

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There is no predefined reason for why people believe so. However, this is a myth and a common coincidence. It has no basis. Scientifically, by the laws of Karma, any blessing or curse which man may perceive is the result of his own actions. There is nobody else but you yourself behind all the happenings. You may feel that your spouse, (wife) is behind your success because you have been trained to view situations from the worldly perspective. But, now view this same situation with a different lens. It is not because she came that you have become successful or happy. In fact, the happiness she experiences (temporary) is the result of her individual past actions and the same is valid for you too. You experience happiness because of your individual past actions. But, due the period of fructification, of both your actions coincide, you experience its results at the same time, together. Thus, it is your individual actions that brings you happiness and the same implies for her as well...

No Love, Only Opportunism.

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Love covers a very small dimension of life as it is dependent on the principle: if you do for me, I love you. This can be justified. For instance, taking loan to buy a new house for your spouse, missing extra classes to spend time with your friends, etc. In all these transaction, it is opportunism veiled as love. Notice and you will see it. We are all oblivious of this fact. On introspecting we shall find that we never loved our children for scoring that marks in the examination, but because they made us feel proud about it or I did not organize that party because I was happy for my child, but only because I got an opportunity to praise myself as a deserving parent. We all are duplicitous in our dealings even with our close ones. God on the other hand is free from these frailties. He is the only entity who can love. Should we not become capable of loving to experience that love? We must start by, accepting that we are incapable of loving or receiving love from anybody. ...