Why relationships fail?
Managing something or someone relates to separation. We can manage only those things or people who are apart from us. On the other hand relationship signifies a deep bond of understanding not t the physical platform but at an emotional platform. Thus, when putting the two terms 'relationship' and 'manage', we know that one loses relevance.
Because, they are contradicting terms. Relationships today are led on the basis of management. The better you manage, your relationship benefits! This is the fallacy. All of us in the world try to equate contradictory emotions to get 'BENEFIT'. We try to manage things which are not meant to be managed. Because we expect more than what it is meant for. This is the foremost reason why most relationships fail. Managing a relationship, no longer remains a relationship. It is a transaction as no transparency remains. The motive of the relationship itself is threatened and hence ruined.
Trust converts to insecurity and fear by the involvement of 'management'. All relationships end in deep sorrow as it seems imprisonment. Such feelings signify a broken relationship as they are born out of lack of expression. In other words, managing a relationship encourages murdering the relationship.
Because, they are contradicting terms. Relationships today are led on the basis of management. The better you manage, your relationship benefits! This is the fallacy. All of us in the world try to equate contradictory emotions to get 'BENEFIT'. We try to manage things which are not meant to be managed. Because we expect more than what it is meant for. This is the foremost reason why most relationships fail. Managing a relationship, no longer remains a relationship. It is a transaction as no transparency remains. The motive of the relationship itself is threatened and hence ruined.
Trust converts to insecurity and fear by the involvement of 'management'. All relationships end in deep sorrow as it seems imprisonment. Such feelings signify a broken relationship as they are born out of lack of expression. In other words, managing a relationship encourages murdering the relationship.
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