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Our Lost Friendship

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We feel that the other is our friend and we too are quite good friends to them! But, just wait a gauge your friendship. Delve deeper into this relationship to find its roots. You will surely find a motive that drives your friendship. But, even then we might compromise on it by saying: "He/ She needs me and so I'm continuing." But remember that this is the response you too will receive from your so-called friend. When the basis of our relationship is questioned, we begin playing the blame game. Because, there is no truth. We are continuing our relationship, (be it with our friends or relatives), we are not truly committed to the relation but the motive that drives us. If you feel that the other is a friend, you are highly mistaken. We define friendship as a mutual bond between individuals where the driving motive is selfless love and care. Love and Care refers to selflessness. Here, individuals cherish the inner sentiments of one another and not the status, wealth o...

Is Technology Good For Spirituality?

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Technology has its drawbacks, not by itself but due to us. Because it can do no harm if one seeks it with the right intention. Even matter has life. Although it is inefficient to express it, it does have consciousness. Let us understand this in depth For example: Technology is a wide platform that serves as a medium, different for different people. A business man can use technology for promoting or advertising while a student can use it for educational purposes. In other words, technology is a mere instrument that reflects our intentions or ideas. It presents us with only those avenues which suits us the most. It thus reciprocates by presenting a field suitable for us. Technology can be used to our favor only if we are focused and bear the right motive. If we use it as a source of entertainment we shall be presented with the dark world. Thus, it being matter can be used to enhance our inner abilities or otherwise. Technology has done wonders! It has widened the reach of spiritu...

Why relationships fail?

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Managing something or someone relates to separation. We can manage only those things or people who are apart from us. On the other hand relationship signifies a deep bond of understanding not t the physical platform but at an emotional platform. Thus, when putting the two terms 'relationship' and 'manage', we know that one loses relevance. Because, they are contradicting terms. Relationships today are led on the basis of management. The better you manage, your relationship benefits! This is the fallacy. All of us in the world try to equate contradictory emotions to get 'BENEFIT'. We try to manage things which are not meant to be managed. Because we expect more than what it is meant for. This is the foremost reason why most relationships fail. Managing a relationship, no longer remains a relationship. It is a transaction as no transparency remains. The motive of the relationship itself is threatened and hence ruined. Trust converts to insecurity and fear b...